Jennifer Lawrence Reveals Why She Didn't Use an On-Set Intimacy Professional on New Film Die My Love

The acclaimed actress has become part of the growing list of actors who voice skepticism about the essential need of intimacy coordinators, explaining she opted against their services while working on her latest project Die My Love.

Understanding the Role of On-Set Intimacy Professionals

Intimacy coordinators were introduced following the #MeToo era to guarantee the security and comfort of performers during scenes involving partial undress and intimate moments. Yet, numerous well-known performers including Gwyneth Paltrow and other established stars have voiced concerns about their presence, with some claiming they disrupt creative flow.

Lawrence's Personal Experience

In conversation on the popular culture podcast, while discussing her latest project where she portrays a character experiencing mental health challenges, Lawrence commented: "We did not have an intimacy coordinator, or perhaps we did have one but didn't really utilize them... I felt completely safe with Robert."

She continued: "He is not pervy and deeply devoted to Suki Waterhouse. What we discussed mostly focused on our children and relationships. There was never uncomfortable moments or questions about professional limits."

"If there was even a hint of discomfort, I definitely would have requested an intimacy coordinator. Numerous male performers get upset if you don't reciprocate their advances, and then the negative treatment starts. He was completely different."

Professional Validation and Ongoing Debate

Recently, industry platform IMDb officially recognized on-set intimacy professionals as a distinct credit, alongside eleven other professional roles including choreography, craft services, and puppetry. Previously, they were grouped under "miscellaneous staff" instead of having their specific credit.

Notwithstanding this validation, these professionals still encounter media scrutiny implying they aren't necessarily required standards, with high-profile performers declining their involvement. Lawrence's perspective echoes that of another prominent actress, who earlier revealed she declined professional supervision while filming alongside Jon Hamm on The Morning Show.

Aniston's Experience

"Jon was extremely respectful – truly each action, between takes, 'You comfortable?'" she recalled. "The scenes were additionally very choreographed. That's the benefit of working with skilled editors, appropriate music. So, you don't prepare."

Aniston continued, "Production suggested, 'Professional verification if you're comfortable,' and I thought, 'Honestly, this is awkward enough!' We're experienced professionals – we can handle this. And we had Mimi present."

Other Examples and Professional Response

Although including multiple sequences of sexual activity and frequent nudity, the award-winning film – Sean Baker's Oscar-winning project about a sex worker and a wealthy heir – filmed without an intimacy coordinator.

The film's star explained she and fellow actor her screen partner "decided it would be preferable to maintain privacy."

"The role I play is a professional in adult entertainment, and I had studied Sean's films and recognized his dedication to realism. I was mentally prepared for it. As an performer, I treated it as professional work."

Her comments generated strong reactions from intimacy coordinators, similar to the response to Gwyneth Paltrow's recent comments, who recently revealed that working on her forthcoming project her latest film represented her first encounter with the relatively new profession, which she "was unaware of previously."

Paltrow's Perspective

When asked about personal ease with a particular action alongside fellow actor her younger counterpart, Paltrow responded: "I belong to the generation where you get naked, you assume position, the camera's on."

She continued that she and her co-star then told the professional: "We think we're comfortable. You can step back.' I can't speak to how it is for emerging actors, but... if someone is directing, '{OK, then he's going to place his hand here,' I would feel, as an creative professional, extremely restricted by that."

Professional Reaction

Following these comments, industry executive an experienced producer described them as "concerning" and highlighted that most of those speaking against intimacy coordinators possess sufficient fame to maintain personal authority and protection on production locations.

"Periodically an performer makes comments about whether they value on-set professionals or not," commented the executive. "Gwyneth Paltrow mentioned she came of age in a time when industry professionals 'took our kit off and proceeded professionally'. As a established actress in Hollywood working with a man considerably junior than her, although likely he is comfortable, I found it quite an irresponsible remark."

Actor's Viewpoint

The veteran actor, meanwhile, shared that he feels the main obligation during intimate sequences rests with the male actor, instead of a external professional.

"In my experience, you take responsibility as the man to make certain the female co-star is at ease, you talk through completely," he said. "You state, '{OK, I'm going to touch you here if that's acceptable'. It's very deliberate but seems like it's occurring organically, which is ideally what authentic performance looks like."

Brian Blanchard
Brian Blanchard

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